"True shepherds hang around everyday sheep. They tend to the souls in their care without fanfare... Nor do they demonize critics. Or vilify victims." Yes, the lack of humble engagement is often noticed. But they do love to vilify and "other" people.
"On Maundy Thursday, Jesus leads the way and we follow. Jesus’ service is important because he shows us how to discern the true leaders from the false ones. He saw the false ones coming. He understood that wolves would come in to harass the sheep. Leaders who follow in the way of Christ lead with towel in hand." (Esau McCaulley, Lent: The Season of Repentance and Renewal (The Fullness of Time))
I appreciate this list. One quality I might add is ongoing growth and humility about one’s own limitations. Real shepherds are not only well-intentioned. They are committed to becoming more competent over time. They seek feedback, remain teachable, and put in the hard work to develop wisdom and skill in caring for people. Good intentions matter, but faithful shepherding also requires the discipline of continually growing in understanding, discernment, and care for the flock.
I think in terms of Elders. False Shepherds are conflict avoidant, afraid to bring things to light because it might make things appear "bad". True Shepherds confront the beasts in whatever form they are, revealing them so the flock might be protected.
False modesty is pride wearing a costume. When any ministry no matter how good becomes an idol. it is destructive.
Pastors who pastor a select group of people and everyone else is on their own.
Yes, that's true, an exclusive group.
"True shepherds hang around everyday sheep. They tend to the souls in their care without fanfare... Nor do they demonize critics. Or vilify victims." Yes, the lack of humble engagement is often noticed. But they do love to vilify and "other" people.
True on the villification.
False shepherds bend the narrative to suit their need for control, power, glory.
True shepherds listen and focus the narrative on Jesus and others and their needs.
So well said, Joy.
Thank you. Unfortunately it comes from experiencing a false shepherd/wolf!
This from Essay McCaulley came to mind:
"On Maundy Thursday, Jesus leads the way and we follow. Jesus’ service is important because he shows us how to discern the true leaders from the false ones. He saw the false ones coming. He understood that wolves would come in to harass the sheep. Leaders who follow in the way of Christ lead with towel in hand." (Esau McCaulley, Lent: The Season of Repentance and Renewal (The Fullness of Time))
Great quote and insight. Thank you for sharing.
I appreciate this list. One quality I might add is ongoing growth and humility about one’s own limitations. Real shepherds are not only well-intentioned. They are committed to becoming more competent over time. They seek feedback, remain teachable, and put in the hard work to develop wisdom and skill in caring for people. Good intentions matter, but faithful shepherding also requires the discipline of continually growing in understanding, discernment, and care for the flock.
I think in terms of Elders. False Shepherds are conflict avoidant, afraid to bring things to light because it might make things appear "bad". True Shepherds confront the beasts in whatever form they are, revealing them so the flock might be protected.
This is a wise and golden comment, William.